Prove them wrong.

"Work hard and prove your doubters/haters wrong" I don't believe, this is a good source of motivation.

This is why, I believe the driving force behind achieving your dreams should be;your belief in that you can achieve it, with hard work and discipline. Most importantly that you can attain what you conceive in your mind, is possible. 
Working  to prove others wrong, has it's limits. I see it, as you are boxing yourself in. Only, to achieve what's considered "impossible" instead of being open, to achieving the " unimaginable".
I know people are motivated differently, maybe this works for you. But just think about it, and consider this, with an open mind. what happens after, you have achieved what they said you couldn't do? What then?.......You see, if you're working to prove others wrong, after you do so. You may not have much of a target left.

Furthermore, like it or not you are indirectly working for their approval. It's as if, you are waiting to achieve your set goals/objectives so they can applaud you. why? they don't believe in you. You do not need their approval. You are already approved, because you think it is possible. More so, what than after you have outdone their expectations of you?  What's next?

Can you now see the cracks in this? as a form of motivational fuel, this is not enough to drive you. Hence why I don't particularly support it. I believe that from the start of your chase, your goal itself, should be your fuel. Whether it be that it reaps intrinsic or extrinsic rewards.

I believe you need to keep dreaming, even after you have found the gold, at the end of your first rainbow of pursuit. Dream up more rainbows and chase them! And keep going.

Your achievements should be monumental and out live you. With hope that generations to come, will continue to be astonished by it. Your work should able to; inspire and push the next generation beyond and over your line of achievements. That way, the level of achievements from the first to the second generation moving progressively upward in standards. Escalating from good, great, excellent,brilliant to phenomenal. Impressively impacting history itself!!!




Do not limit yourself to proving people wrong, but rather expend yourself. By enlarging the scope of the level of your achievements. Do it with the next generation in mind.
LEGACY be very concerned about it..... Yours Truly Viviane.


Love YOU first and love THEM all always XOX